Yuri's revenge multiplayer trough gamespy?

im trying to play multiplayer with my frend.well everything is going great until the game launches and then in network bottun we can't see each other and can't join the same game..i have a wireless adsl connection and he has a cable.please its warry important

I believe you need to be connected via LAN (Local Area Network). You're probably not. Basically, there's not much you can do except possibly find a website to play through.